My focus is on healing all the ways that shame keeps us from living and lovingfully.
Want support for navigating life's many valleys, pot holes, and and curve-balls -- while maintaining a commitment to your own radical self-care?
Wish to cultivate both courageous honesty and genuine kindness in all your relationships -- without ditching either your heart or your truth at the door?
Do you seek a refuge, a safe haven, a place to come "home" to in yourself -- to know the unwavering ground of your own being as a guide and source of support through life's darker moments?
You weren't meant to navigate this journey alone.
If you long for an ally, you've come to the right place.
Who I Work With
I primarily work with women.
Young women. Older women. Women of all walks of life, including queer women and women of color. I serve conscious women who are already on the personal growth path, and who want to deepen their healing and self-awareness.
WHAT FORMER CLIENTS SAY:
My Approach: 3 Steps
1. We offer a radical “welcome” to what’s here.
Rather than deny your insecurities, your old hurts, your fears, your anger, and your deepest sources of shame, we welcome all the parts of you that have so often been told they are not welcomed, and so often swept under the rug in order to ensure your survival and security throughout your lifetime. We give these parts a place at the table, and say to them, “Hi there. We see you. You matter.”
2. We ask of your whole self, “What is it that you need to thrive?”
We let all of you have a voice. We assume that even your scared, frightened, and insecure-as-heck parts have a wisdom, have an integrity, and know something about what your whole being needs that matters. And so we ask, “What is it that you need to thrive? What is it that would make life more wonderful for you? What is it that would allow you to come out of hiding, to find your wings, and take flight?” We listen, and we take notes. We hold these answers as precious gems, and touchstones for your life to be honored.
3. We bolster your internal healing with powerful communication tools.
Drawing upon tools from Nonviolent Communication (NVC), we look at how you are currently showing up in your relationships – with intimate partners, with family members, with co-workers, everyone – and together try out new, more empowering ways of communicating your needs and requests, in ways that allows the other to hear you, to take you seriously, and to feel connected with what matters most to you.
In turn, we practice ways of hearing the other person, and what may be going on for them beneath the surface, even when they themselves don’t have the words for it. In the end, you discover more options for moving forward, a greater sense of personal choice, and more opportunities for the kind of authentic connection and meaning you desire in your relationships.
Creating safe, inviting space for personal growth and healing. I support women in healing and transforming shame into radical self-love, women who have been conditioned to believe there is something wrong with them, who want to heal, and who ultimately want to flourish in this world. I support women bringing awareness to the ways in which internalized shame presents barriers to them acting on their full capacity and potential, and encouraging new, life-serving beliefs and practices of self-forgiveness and acceptance. As a result, the women I work with become more present, clear, rooted in a strong sense of self, and able to love themselves and others more openly and freely.
Supporting women through everyday challenges and life transitions. I am a kind, loving, and accepting ally for women going through both everyday life challenges and momentous life changes, including relationship difficulties, break-ups and divorce, family breakdowns (and breakthroughs), career changes and relocation, as well as the spiritual struggles that encompass all of it.
Empowering women to become confident communicators. Using tools from Nonviolent Communication (NVC), I support women in honing their communication skills and transforming their habitual ways of relating, so that they can express themselves both honestly and with heart when the goin’ gets tough, whether with intimate partners, friends, family, roommates, and co-workers alike.
How long is each session? 50 minutes.
How often do we meet? Most clients meet with me weekly. I strongly recommend meeting on a regular, consistent basis to give out-of-session momentum to our in-session changes. Especially in the first 3-6 months of coaching together, a lot of healing, growth, and transformation often occur that require consistent follow-up. Coming to coaching is like planting a new garden - the garden of your soul. Regular watering, nourishing, and weeding are what allow it to flourish and grow strong! After establishing a strong foundation, some clients will see me for "maintenance" on a less frequent basis. That said, clients are always free to come and go, and I welcome all newcomers to begin by trying a single session to see if working together feels like a good fit.
What are your fees? I request $150 per 50 minute session. In instances where the client is deeply ready and willing to invest in their growth and this fee would pose a financial hardship, I offer a sliding scale. Write to me and let's talk.
Where will we meet?
- At my home office in Gainesville, Florida
- If you’re not local, we can meet via Skype
Questions? Please email me at marina [at] shamelessheart [dot] com, and I'll get back to you within 1 business day.
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